We’ve been pretty lax about date night since our son was born… A few more pressing things to attend to with a newborn in the house! But lately we’ve had a little more breathing room and are starting to consider what we can do for us! Still, options are limited when you have a baby… And besides that, its freezing outside, why would I want to leave the comfort of my ducted gas?! So we cook or get takeaway and (in a perfect world where the boy sleeps when it suits us… ROFLCOPTER) have a lovely, quiet meal together. Then we might chat, watch some TV together, play with our son (inevitably he wants a piece of the action), play a game, clean up around the house (together while chatting), or more recently – watch a movie.
I was anti movie watching for quite a while… Hubby’s isn’t the most naturally talkative of men and I don’t view watching a movie together as quality time the way he does (I’m not so interested in the shared experience & post movie analysis that he loves). For a long time I’ve dug my heals in and flatly refused to watch movies… Not the best approach I know, but I wanted communication that wasn’t centered on movies/TV. But in the spirit of compromise and greater marital harmony I’m giving my heels a night off now & then and engaging in the shared experience hubby is so fond of! Continue Reading…